I hear good things about The Guide to Getting It On. Also, reading lots of Dan Savage's column over the years, while not necessarily helpful on a column-by-column basis, has a good cumulative effect, I think. People frequently write in wanting his permission to do or not do certain things, and his advice generally comes down to "do whatever it is you want most, in communication with your partner."
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Mon, Mar. 28th, 2011 06:07 am (UTC)