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As I'm sure most people know, [livejournal.com profile] coffeeandink was outed by W*ll Sh*tt*rly and Kathryn Cramer. Although they have now removed her legal name, neither of them have prevented others from outing her in their comments, and WS has deleted his LJ1 and Kathryn Cramer has taken down the entries (be warned, the one outing Mely leads to a malware site). WS has noted he will not out anyone, but quite frankly, given that he had apologized to Mely, Willow, [livejournal.com profile] deepad, and [livejournal.com profile] vom_marlowe only a month before, I do not trust anything he says (the apology was on his LJ, which has been deleted). In interest of full disclosure, I note that Mely is a good friend of mine, as well as an ally I value a great deal.

I am disturbed and frightened by WS and KC's actions, not in the least because they tie directly back in to issues of gender, race, class, and other social injustices.

Here's [livejournal.com profile] rydra_wong's timeline of RaceFail '09, so people can decide what they think themselves.

SF media and book fandoms and power

RaceFail has, from the very beginning, had authors and editors on one side and readers and consumers on another. Although authors and editors and readers and consumers are not and never will be mutually exclusive categories, it is fair to say that those who have more power in the SF/F publishing world (Elizabeth Bear, Sarah Monette, the Nielsen Haydens, Emma Bull, W*ll Sh*tt*rly, Kathryn Cramer) were arguing against people who did not have power in that world (Willow, Deepa, Mely2), with the exception of some SF/F authors and editors such as Nora Jemisin, K. Tempest Bradford, and Liz Henry (eta: Nora and Tempest and Liz are also arguing against that power, as they are not as firmly established and are therefore risking more).

[livejournal.com profile] veejane has posted about SF book fandom versus SF media fandom. I generally do not agree with posts that hold up media fandom (eta: this circle of media fandom, not all media fandoms) as something to be learned from, as it is not a haven to fans of color or a hotbed of diversity. However, the divide between SF book fandom, particularly the segment that is directly involved in the publishing industry, and SF media fandom exists, and as a whole, SF book fandom has had more professional power in terms of the publishing industry, more men, and probably more white people. It's not some accident or random twist of fate that created this divide. The unofficial nature of media fandom is indirectly responsible for its relatively larger diversity—and I never thought I would say this, because being more diverse than media fandom is not that high of a bar—institutional power makes it that much easier for white people, abled people, male people, middle-aged people, middle-class people to get in and to stay in. There are, of course, disadvantaged people in SF book fandom and in SF publishing, and I personally benefit a great deal from people like Nalo Hopkinson and Tobias Buckell and organizations like the Carl Brandon Society and Wiscon. But the face of SF book fandom is very limited.

This is why WS and KC's attempts to reframe the argument in their own terms is so harmful. They are attempting to force a conversation which started in LJ and make it follow their own rules. WS is doing so after having had an LJ for many years, and both WS and KC are doing so after many people have told them repeatedly about pseudonyms and about the dangers of outing. It is widely agreed upon by nearly everyone in media fandom that outing someone is unacceptable; furthermore, this is not LJ specific. Political and personal bloggers around the internet have lost jobs by being outed, and that's only one consequence. The important thing is not that they are reframing the conversation around pseudonymity and outing, it is that they are reframing the conversation so that it once again leaves that of race and racism in SF fandom. This reframing of the argument is not dangerous simply because of this one incidence of race fail; it is dangerous because it is representative of what happens when a group with more power and a group with less power argue.

This reframing is a cousin to the tone argument (search for "tone"). Both are ways of asserting power, of staking metaphorical ground; they are rhetorical forms of control that deliberately uphold current power structures. Mely writes, "This conviction, in the face of public conversation and well-documented timelines, that a discussion about race in science fiction is about the personal grudges of white people -- this inability to recognize, hear, or speak to the people of color involved in the discussion -- this in itself contributes to the institution of racism and the continuing whiteness of science fiction." Note how frequently WS and KC refer to race and racism in their posts. There has been an amazing moving bar of who has the "right" to speak; first, Deepa and Willow didn't critique Bear's book properly because they were too "emotional;" now we are too educated, not oppressed enough. Furthermore, WS in particular has had a long history of changing the subject. The arguments happening don't start with WS talking about classism; they start with someone else talking about racism. This is power at work, trying to keep itself in power.

SF book fandom, where are you?

Although a few authors and editors have come out against what WS and KC have done, where is the rest of the fandom? Like Jane says earlier, "Where are the con-comms, going apeshit to distance themselves from these serial fails of race and culture? Where are the guests-of-honor, specifically inviting underserved communities to visit at an upcoming con? (Where are the "discount if this is your first con evar" programs?) Why aren't the SF organizations like SFWA (okay, bad example) having a cow and putting out official position statements on outreach? Where are press-releases from the publishing houses, explaining their diversity efforts (in their lists and in their workplaces)?"

Why the resounding silence? Editors, authors, fans—all the people who were not talking about RaceFail and what people in their field were doing: where are they?

If the prior months of RaceFail were "both sides behaving badly" (which I disagree with), what is this, and why has no one said anything?

Mely previously wrote, "Is group protest always right or good? No, it's not. It's a way to establish and enforce community norms, and it's only as right and good as the community norms are. It can be profoundly oppressive and profoundly abusive. But silence in the face of injury is also a way to establish and enforce community norms. You don't opt out of a community by remaining in it and never commenting on its big controversies; you just opt to abide by whatever party wins."

What SF book fandom is telling me—a woman, a person of color, and a long-time fan of SF books and a con-goer—what you are telling me is that you don't care. That these are, in fact, your community norms, that you are all right with people who have more power in your community (by virtue of profession, race, and gender) using that power to harm other, less powerful, members of your community. That you are fine with the erasure of women, of people of color, of those without the same professional privileges you enjoy, and that you are willing to stand by silently and let people be hurt. This is how it affects us. This. And this.

Your silence speaks volumes.

The intersectionality of threats

Even though this started as RaceFail, it does not affect "just" race. For one, that assumes that people of color only suffer from a single oppression. Secondly, as many, many people have noted, outing can be threatening on many levels, and I would like to highlight that it can seriously harm women who are being sexually harrassed, GLBT people who are not out, POC who have been threatened, and etc. Media fandom is a safe space for some people. Again, this is something I never thought I would say, as it has proved time and again that it is not a safe space for all people. But in this particular case, it is more of a safe space than SF book fandom because of media fandom's lack of business deals and money-related matters, because of the general lack of ways to retaliate in the offline world. The act of outing comes out of the attempt to control conversation and thereby acts as an attempt to control the people having the conversation, and it comes from not just from two individuals trying to silence an anti-racist ally, but also from a community with more power in terms of gender and race.

WS and KC did not do this in a vacuum; they did it in an environment in which they could reasonably not fear many consequences (and as far as I can tell, they will not suffer consequences at all, save being banned from some blogs they probably never visited). They may not have knowingly taken advantage of this power, but they did regardless. And right now, that same environment's reaction is saying that it's ok.

This is why I think a threat to one of us is a threat to all of us. It is upholding a social norm that makes it ok to make threats against people talking about issues of social justice, and even more, it is upholding a norm that says these issues of social justice do not exist at all. I do not think feminists or GLBT activists or anti-classists or anti-ablists will be attacked right this second. But I do think the reduction of social justice is something that affects us all. If nothing else, these few years in my communities have taught me that yesterday's classism is today's anti-Semitism and becomes tomorrow's misogyny. And quite frequently, these attacks hurt the same people, because oppressions do not come singly.

What I want

I want to know if this is the norm for SF fandom. I want to know what SF fandom is doing to welcome oppressed groups—actively welcome, because simply saying "Come in" to someone who has just been assaulted in your house is not the same as showing them the precautions you have taken against further assault. I want to know if I and my allies will be safe.

But mostly, I want to know what you who have been silent are going to do.

I say this because it is all too easy for me to stay on the periphery. So don't tell me. Show me. Not via links or comments, but by making changes—in yourself, in one aspect of your life, online or offline, public or private, large or small. Help us all change.

What I'm going to do

I'd like to spend this week focusing on POC; in particular, I will try to catch up on all my backlog of book write ups by and about POC. I am going to read the 12th POC in SF Carnival. I will continue working on making my blog a safe space for oppressed people and issues of social justice. I will work on my pieces for the Asian Women Blog Carnival and the Remyth Project. I am going to continue to deal with these same issues of safety and trust and social justice offline.

eta: Also, any pointers about bringing up these things and dealing with them offline are incredibly appreciated.

Rules of discourse

I have, for the first time, preemptively banned people (WS and Greyorm). Having seen their comments in other places, I have no desire to have them in my blog. If they would like to respond to me, they are perfectly free to do so in the entire rest of the internet. I especially do not care how wonderful WS is offline; this is online, and he has years of history of behaving badly. I will be on- and offline periodically tomorrow, but I will still be moderating comments.

Notes:
1 It was deleted when I wrote this, and he restored it while I was editing this prior to posting. (eta: deleted again as of 3/5)
2 No, I don't think having worked nine months for an SF/F publishing house thirteen years ago is the same as being an editor or an author right now.

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Thu, Mar. 5th, 2009 03:19 am (UTC)
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Posted by [personal profile] zillah975
I sympathize wholeheartedly with this. I've spent the last several years reading and thinking but not speaking up; it's only been recently that I've reached a place where I feel like I can add light instead of heat at all, and I'm sure that some of the time, I'm adding a whole lot more of the latter than the former. I think that the best things I've been doing, though, have been the conversations I've been having with offline friends. I can rant in my LJ where everyone else is also reading the same things I am, and that's fine, but when I'm having dinner with my three closest women friends and talking about these same issues, and helping them to see things that they hadn't seen before, or think about things in a new way, that's when I feel like what I'm saying actually makes a difference. Not everything has to be a big public pronouncement in order to help. :)

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Thu, Mar. 5th, 2009 03:58 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] stakebait.livejournal.com
Oddly I went the other way... I used to wade merrily into every fannish debate of significance I could get my hands on, and I have gotten quieter and quieter. But I'm glad to hear it has gone the other way for you. And you make an intesting point about the offline discussions -- so far most of mine have been with people who are independently following these developments, but they needn't stay that way.

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Thu, Mar. 5th, 2009 04:25 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] stakebait.livejournal.com
Not I, at least not yet, but maybe zillah975 does?

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Thu, Mar. 5th, 2009 05:15 am (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] dichroic.livejournal.com
I have a lot of trouble with that, especially as so often I figure out what I'm thinking as I type it out. Of course, there is always the 'type and do not send' option, but I don't think it works that way for me.

I've been relatively quiet throughout the '09 race debates, mostly because I didn't think my viewpoint on it was an important one, in most cases. But I'm aware that "relatively quiet" for me can look a lot like "I wish she'd shut UP already!" to others, especially less talkative people. I think you on the other hand have been striking a very good balance through it all - it's pretty firmly indicated by the large flocks of "thank you for saying that important thing so well!" comments each time you've posted on related subjects :-)

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Thu, Mar. 5th, 2009 05:01 am (UTC)
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Posted by [personal profile] zillah975
Interestingly, I find politics a lot harder to talk about offline than I do race. The two are very interconnected, but when I approach the conversation from the position of wanting to talk about race and racism, I think it puts the people I'm talking with -- who are friends of mine, and thus disinclined to go directly into defensive asshole mode with me -- into a place of feeling that they need to listen. We're all pretty much of the guilty white liberal breed, so if someone brings up Republicans vs Democrats vs Libertarians, it can turn nasty fast because our guilt doesn't kick in. But when it's race, then I think they're afraid to let it turn nasty right away because they don't want to be racist, and by the time they've reached a comfort level with the conversation, they're already past the knee-jerk defensiveness response.

Yep, I use guilt. But only by knowing it's there and taking advantage of how it'll affect their reactions, not by actually trying to make them feel guilty.

And when I have gotten the knee-jerk defensiveness response, I've managed work it around to being less defensive by not becoming defensive in return -- by remembering that these are women whose hearts I know, and whose good will I believe in -- and by making it about me, not them. I try to make the conversation about the fact that this is me saying of myself that I'm trying to acknowlege my own racism and to become as non-racist as I can be, that I'm trying to own and understand the racist assumptions I have, and my own white privilege -- basically, make the conversation about my journey rather than about how they need to make the journey too, and then they tend to listen. And then later, they start talking about themselves, and their own journeys. And I've been so surprised to hear some of the things they say, attitudes they're expressing that are different from what they were when I first started talking.

Basically, in order to have a productive conversation, I try to stay gentle, and I try to talk about me and my discoveries about myself, and the things I'm trying to do to become a better person. This puts them into a place where they can hear me without feeling defensive, and the things I'm saying can also make them feel safe to acknowlege that they've got some issues to work through too. If I can admit to them that I have this terrible thing in me and I'm working to overcome it, then it's safer for them to admit that they do too.

When talking with people I don't know well, I try to stick to saying small things that are clear and meaningful, and that don't necessarily lead to larger conversations, but which do make it clear what I believe. I think that having more small conversations can have more impact than having one big conversation, especially because the big conversation has so much potential to turn ugly. And if the small conversation does start to turn ugly, I'll find a way to derail it -- even if it means just walking away, literally. I think that one thing that doesn't help in face-to-face conversations is when things turn ugly and people dig in their heels.

I guess the trick is to not give them things to dig their heels in against.

Am I making any sense? It's late and I'm - my thinky thoughts are not always very coherent even when it's not late. :)

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Thu, Mar. 5th, 2009 01:12 pm (UTC)
Posted by [identity profile] illariy.livejournal.com
I'm not the OP but thanks for sharing your experiences, I found these quite helpful hints. They look much more promising than my own, flaily attempts at speaking up in RL. ;-)

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Thu, Mar. 5th, 2009 01:35 pm (UTC)
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Posted by [personal profile] zillah975
*g* Well, I'm nearly 45 years old and up until now, believe me, I have been filled only with flailyness. I still flail a lot, actually. :)

I mean, okay, the friends I'm talking about in my comment, they're incredible people. They're smart (really, really smart), they're loving, they're incredibly compassionate, and they're the best friends I have ever had or can imagine having. So I think just the fact that I can question whether they would listen to me without that kneejerk defensiveness if it weren't for both our shared guilty white liberalness and the fact that we love each other -- that speaks volumes about how difficult and fraught this stuff can be to talk about. There's nothing else in the world besides politics and race that I'm anxious when I bring up with them, and it's got nothing to do with them as people but with me and with the culture that we've been soaking in since we were born.

So yeah, heh. No wonder people tend to flail.

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