Gleason, Colleen - The Rest Falls Away

Also known as: Regency!Buffy

Some things are changed: Slayers are Venators and can be born or trained, there are definitely more than one per generation, and most are male, but Victoria Gardella Grant is clearly a Buffy take, and the book has a few homages to the series.

More notably, the book focuses on the main conflict of S1 Buffy; namely, how does one have a social life and romance and all that fun stuff while vampire slaying? Even more so when one is a Regency lady? I think the book loses something by not having the high school/vampire metaphors extended the way Buffy could, but on the other hand, the social pressures on Victoria are even greater than those on Buffy.

Plus, her maid decorates her stakes and puts them into her hairdos!

Also, this book is being marketed as a paranormal romance (or so the spine and the shelving tell me), but it's not. I mean, I haven't read enough paranormals to say, but this book has almost none of the trappings I expect from a romance novel, including a central romance. There is romance, but it's very clearly a side element, and it doesn't follow any of the normal developments a romance-romance would. If I had to put this in a genre (outside of fantasy), I would put it in "superhero origin stories."

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Anyway, I found this a fun read, though I was never caught up emotionally or worried about Victoria. Still, I am getting the next book from the library because I am shipping Victoria/Max and want to see if anything will happen.

Links:
- magicnoire's review
- oracne's review (spoilers)

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Argh! My bank found someone using my check card number on a "site under suspicion," so I have to get a new one.

On the plus side, I can finally listen to my own music in the car again! My car CD changed croaked some time before Christmas, and yes, it has taken me this long to get something done about it. Instead of going for a new CD changer, I got an iPod adapter instead.

My own music! In the car! No more annoying radio commercials or songs I have heard a bazillion times now!

Alpha male or stalker?

I found "Alpha Male or Stalker?" on Colleen Gleason's (author of the Gardella vampire books) website.

I'm sure I've written about my problems with romance heroes (and shoujo manga heroes, and I would say kdrama heroes except I have luckily managed to avoid most of the bad heroes) many, many, many times already. I'm also not the right audience for that question, given how very sick I am of alpha heroes in general, not just alpha heroes who are actually stalkers.

Most of this is because I am tired of reading romances about women's fears of sexual desire and how they get over that fear by giving control up to the hero. I am perfectly fine with this in real life, but as a trope, it's horribly overused, and I would like (the legitimate and socially enforced) fears of sexual desire to be solved in another way. Preferably one in which we get to see the heroine in control.

I do think that one can have control by giving it up, but since this is portrayed in the majority of romances I have read, I'm not particularly interested in it, and I think its popularity Says Something. What, precisely, I don't know, but this is reason #345987 why I want "Romance and Feminism 201: Yes, We Know Romances Can Be Feminist, Now Can We Talk About If Most of Them Actually Are?" For the record, my current answer is a tempered "no," at least from what I've read. But my current answer is also changing as the genre changes, and getting back into romances after a year or two of not reading them has been very interesting.

Anyway, alpha males. I found myself disagreeing with many of the details in Gleason's article, though the general gist of it works: he's a stalker if he's pursuing her against her will. Of course, like Gleason, I find the problem lies in that last phrase; my definition of "against her will" seems to be notably stricter than a lot of romances' definition. Much of this is because of the prevalence of date rape, and the uses of "But she didn't really mean 'no,'" "But she was asking for it," "But she smiled at me," "But she really did want it," and etc. as a defense for rape. As such, some of the techniques Gleason details really don't work for me as a reader, though more as a question of degree. Frex, "letting the heroine cue us in." I read vagueness and mixed signals as the societal pressure on women (particularly upper-and-middle-class white women, who star in the majority of romances) to be nice and not cause conflict. Getting me into the hero's POV doesn't work if he's justifying actions that I'm finding stalkery, and I give much less weight to intent than to action. I'm sure most stalkers think their actions are perfectly justifiable, and people in general are pretty good at convincing themselves that they're doing something in someone else's best interest, no matter what that someone else actually says.

So when I read about the pursuit of a heroine in romance, I want it to be very clear that she does, in fact, welcome the hero's attention. As in, if she says no, even with a smile, I want him to stop. A little persuasion works for me further in the relationship, when the two have already established a friendship, but when it's the lust-at-first-sight scenario, particularly if other power imbalances are involved (class, gendered situations, race, age, occupation, etc.), I'd much rather the hero err on the side of caution.

Of course, this is me. And of course, this is me, now. I know that when I was younger and much more confused about sexuality in general, I did like the forceful hero more. And I am not generalizing my own experience; mine is tied into that old trope of women afraid of their sexuality, but again, that's just me.

And I'm leaving out romances that are intentionally dark and disturbing, which brings me to the current spate of paranormal romances. I do find the fantasy element a way to get around the alpha hero (though I still want more female werewolves and demons and vampires and etc). I suspect this is partially how historicals were used in the past; actions that would be slappable for a contemporary hero are ok for a medieval one, frex.

But! Enough about me. What do you guys think about alpha heroes? When do they cross the line? What elements make them work or not work?

Also, discussion about alpha heroes in dramas or manga is also highly welcome (though please no giant sweeping statements about Asian societies or psychoanalysis of the audience)!

ETA: Part 2