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[oyceter]

Because this twenty things that may or may not be about you meme is driving me crazy:

Not to say that it is a bad meme, but I am a paranoid person, and I keep thinking, "Oh no! They're talking about me! I knew I was boring and evil!" or "Oo, am I being complimented? Probably not. Why did I think that; I am so vain!" and it brings out all the paranoia in me.

So.

Twenty things that apply to everyone. Yes, you. Even if you aren't on my FL, even if you don't have an LJ. Because I bet there is someone in your life (if not quite a few someones) who thinks this about you:

1. I wish you weren't so hard on yourself, because you're so brilliant.

2. I have no idea how you do the things you do, but I'm glad that you do.

3. Even though I may not understand your hobby or passion, I love how enthusiastic you are about it.

4. I never thought I would be interested in something like this, but your posts on it have drawn me in.

5. I wish I thought like that.

6. Sometimes your brain processes intimidate me because of the sheer smartness.

7. I wish I could meet you in real life (alternately: I'm so glad we met!).

8. You write well.

9. You make me laugh.

10. I love the way you look at things; you make me pay attention to things I otherwise wouldn't.

11. I wish you would stop feeling guilty about how often and what you post in your LJ. I read you because I want to, and though not all topics may interest me per se, a good percentage do. Plus, for the things that don't interest me, there are probably a good deal of people out there who do enjoy reading about them and are glad that you're posting about them.

12. I don't comment on a lot of posts because I never know what to add to what you say, and so I just stay in my little corner of the internet.

13. Sometimes you scare me in a good way because you are so skilled in all these things I can't do.

14. Take it easy on yourself.

15. Knowing you makes my world that much broader, and I appreciate that.

16. It's your life. I get why you worry about what other people will think or say, because it can hurt, but in the end, I hope you make the choices that are right for you.

17. I don't care how you look or how you think you look. You are smart and nice and a good friend, and that makes you pretty gorgeous to me.

18. I want to see more pictures of things in your life! Non-identifying things, if you are paranoid, but I like seeing what you see, even on a small, pixelated level.

19. Take care of yourself, health-wise and mental-health-wise, because I'm a greedy person and I like having you around and I want you to be ok. Of course, it's ok if you aren't ok in that you shouldn't feel obligated to be shiny and happy all the time and because we all need a good moping sometimes. But mostly, I'm sitting here wishing the best for you.

20. You rock.

Comments

[rilina.livejournal.com]

Because this twenty things that may or may not be about you meme is driving me crazy.
You're definitely not the only one who feels this way. :)

And these apply to you from me too!

[ann1962]

Thanks Oyceter for making this meme (note: not mean) what it can be, what it should be.

[rysmiel.livejournal.com]

Oh gosh. Finally, nice things I don't have to feel guilty about considering as possibly applying to me. Thank you.

[minnow1212.livejournal.com]

I want to hug the stuffing out of you right now. Thank you for posting this.

[oursin.livejournal.com]

That's lovely!

[midnightsjane.livejournal.com]

This is great. Just about every item on the list is a thought I have had about someone on my flist, and a comment I probably have made to someone.

[coffeeandink.livejournal.com]

You are one of the loveliest people I know.

[fannishly.livejournal.com]

*sobs*

Waaaaahhh! This made me cry!

You know I adore you and think the world of you.

[cofax7]

Awww, that's lovely. You are a good person.

[avrelia.livejournal.com]

You rock too!

Those are all mightly wonderful things to say.

[stormrunner.livejournal.com]

Pointed here via leadensky, and just have to say: haven't seen this meme floating around yet, but I very much appreciate your interpretation thereof.

You rocketh mightily.

[mamculuna.livejournal.com]

Oops! Should have scrolled (!) down to see you'd already covered the bases, and so much better.

[gwyneira.livejournal.com]

This is easily my favorite version of this meme. Not that the other ones bothered me, really, as I always assume that I couldn't possibly be high enough on anyone's radar to be included anyway, but I love your more positive spin on it.

#20 right back at you!

[oyceter]

Yeah, I was sitting there clicking through lists and going, "Oh no, I knew I should cut-tag more! I knew I was boring!" and then "Oh, did they compliment me?" and then "Gah, how I can I be so vain as to think that person would even notice me, much less put me on a list!" and then back to "I knew I was boring!"

And thank you ^_^.

[oyceter]

I figure someone out there needs a good cheering up right about now, and hopefully it helps in some small way.

[oyceter]

Good, I'm glad. And they do apply to you ^_^.

[oyceter]

*hugs back* And your version made me all happy, thanks!

[oyceter]

^_^

[oyceter]

Yay, good! That's what I was trying to get at, in a rather oblique way.

[oyceter]

*blushes* Aww, thank you (I am struggling not to tack on denials at the end of this and to try to accept gracefully).

[oyceter]

*hugs*

You know I adore you and think the world of you.

Very, very much reciprocated!

[oyceter]

Thank you ^_^.

[oyceter]

Aww, thank you, and please do take all the above personally =).

[oyceter]

=)

Thank you!

[oyceter]

Hee, I am sure there is plenty of room in the world for more compliments ;).

[oyceter]

Thank you! And yes, you were definitely included.