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Mori Kaoru - Emma, vol. 05 (Eng. trans.)
Awwww! William's parents are so cute! Though I am sad by how things ended up. And I want to know: do they still love each other? Does he resent her for not being able to handle the stress, even if he knows it's not logical? Do they write to each other?
I very much like that Mori isn't providing a fairy-tale ending to the Jones' story. I like how quietly and slowly things fall apart, how love doesn't conquer all odds, how things like social expectations and whatnot have an effect, no matter how much people try to make them not matter. It's a nice contrast to the usual "Love conquers all!" schtick that annoys me.
But it also makes me afraid of what will happen with William and Emma. I do not know how it can possibly end well! And oh, they are so cute, and part of my love-triangle-hating heart is mollified by the fact that Eleanor isn't in this much.
(but i still want to whap william because dude! not nice!)
Also, I am a total sucker for letters in fiction.
I'm also glad that Mori isn't keeping Emma and William's relationship a secret; part of this is because I detest love stories that involve sneaking around. Another part is just because the schtick of "Oh no! Will they get caught!" gets really, really old.
In conclusion, Emma running toward William and flinging her arms around him is the cutest thing ever.
Unless the cutest thing ever is Mori Kaoru's author notes at the end ("Lace, lace, corsets, stairs, lace, aprons, aprons, glasses, glasses!").
I very much like that Mori isn't providing a fairy-tale ending to the Jones' story. I like how quietly and slowly things fall apart, how love doesn't conquer all odds, how things like social expectations and whatnot have an effect, no matter how much people try to make them not matter. It's a nice contrast to the usual "Love conquers all!" schtick that annoys me.
But it also makes me afraid of what will happen with William and Emma. I do not know how it can possibly end well! And oh, they are so cute, and part of my love-triangle-hating heart is mollified by the fact that Eleanor isn't in this much.
(but i still want to whap william because dude! not nice!)
Also, I am a total sucker for letters in fiction.
I'm also glad that Mori isn't keeping Emma and William's relationship a secret; part of this is because I detest love stories that involve sneaking around. Another part is just because the schtick of "Oh no! Will they get caught!" gets really, really old.
In conclusion, Emma running toward William and flinging her arms around him is the cutest thing ever.
Unless the cutest thing ever is Mori Kaoru's author notes at the end ("Lace, lace, corsets, stairs, lace, aprons, aprons, glasses, glasses!").
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I too adore how complicated and fraught everything is. How there is no clear path.
Though, wow, Oyce, you have a long list of things that drive you crazy in love stories!
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I reread my entry, and wow, I really do! I blame it on consuming entirely too many romance novels, shoujo manga, and romantic comedies? I looooove all those genres, and I love love love good romances, but some of the tropes drive me nuts because I see them so often. Well, ok, that and I'm incredibly cynical and never bought into the Romeo and Juliet thing ;).
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I think the thing that throws me out of something is when two people are dating/married/committed and one of them is in love with another person, and that that is portrayed as True Love a la Guinevere and Lancelot (one of the main reasons why I am almost never into Arthur retellings). I always end up feeling sorry for the third person.
Also, part of it is personal -- I absolutely hate hate hate watching people drag out relationships IRL because they don't want to hurt the other person instead of just making a clean break. Just make the break! It is actually less painful in the end! (um, this is totally my own personal projection)
I can do the cheating thing a little better if it's from the POV of the person being cheated on, a la Nana, but no matter what, I end up wanting to strangle the cheater.
I can also do forbidden love if it's ... hrm. I'm not sure. Like, if you have angels and demons involved, I will read pretty much anything! I think I do forbidden love better when it's portrayed as doomed and angsty and dysfunctional with two broken people clinging to each other, as opposed to the "we defy society!" To me, R&J is doomed, but not angsty and dysfunctional, and I always get the sense that they don't really think they're doomed; they actually think they will get away with it in the end (ergo the scheme with the priest). Also, I am a total sucker for sneaky love that has one person hiding their love for the other person because they think it won't be accepted, as opposed to two non-dysfunctional lovers sneaking off together.
Um. That was probably way more than you ever wanted to know!
I was rereading, and I guess the thing that annoys me the most is the idea that True Love Conquers All. Because I don't think it does (I think it helps and it is a good thing, but it doesn't necessarily trump friendship or family), and I hate it when characters do and go off and act selfishly because of that and hurt other people and it's portrayed as wonderful and romantic.
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Well, unless it's dysfunctional. Ha! And this is where I totally contradict myself, because if you throw in angels and demons, I am so in!
ZOMG. Speaking of Doomed Love, have you seen the trailer for Ang Lee's Lust, Caution? Pushes every single one of my Doomed Love buttons.
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So, angels and demons are your bullet-proof kink?
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What about you? What counts as Doomed Love?
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Like you it's not really bulletproof because bad writing and scarifying politics will kill it stone cold dead for me.
I kind of like the Doomed Love of Rhett and Scarlett because it's so willful but you believe her blindness and stupidity and that he would finally lose patience with her. I wish the book wasn't so unspeakably racist . . .
I am also a huge fan of Rebecca in Ivanhoe. Though I am disturbed by my kind of wanting her and Bois-Gilbert to get it on. Because he is DREADFUL.
I do have a weakness for books where the love does not work out. But sometimes I feel very alone in that . . .
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I remember liking Pam Rosenthal's Almost a Gentleman for the cross-dressing, and Julia Ross' The Wicked Lover has it too, but I never finished that one because it annoyed me. And oh!!! Everyone has been watching the kdrama Coffee Prince which also has it and I am so excited because I will start watching it this weekend when I visit
I think the one thing that bugs me about cross-dressing is when the guy thinks he is attracted to another man OH NOES and is sooo relieved to find that he is not homosexual.
I am a total sucker for Rhett and Scarlett. Especially the bits about Rhett not letting himself show how much he loves her, despite the ensuing hinky gender politics. Not to mention the race stuff, of course...
I love books where the love does not work out! Unfortunately, it's so hard to find them... but that's one reason why I love Nana and Yazawa Ai in general so much.
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The great love that does not work out gives me a very strange feeling that I find hard to describe. It's like one part of me is brain washed into desperately wanting the two to walk off into the sunset together and part of the enjoyment of love gone wrong is the weird pulling feeling you get from the love-must-work brainwashing being thwarted. Or something.
Aargh! See? It's so hard to describe what the strange pulling ouch pleasure of tragedy is.
Oh, and yes also on the whole thank God I'm not gay bit. Erk.
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I would totally read that.
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I have a feeling it's been written though. (Not that that would stop me from writing it.) It feels SO familiar to me. Though that could be because it happened to me one time. I was fourteen or fifteen and waiting in a fairly sleazy (though not scary) part of Sydney to meet my boyfriend. I was wearing a guy's coat and jeans---pretty much boy clothes---and the coat was big and made me look flat. This guy came up to me and asked me how much. I was shocked and spluttered. And then he looked shocked and spluttered, "Oh my God! I thought you were a boy!" He hurried away very quickly.
Most surreal.
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A year or so later the cross-dressing girl runs into the guy again with his wife and children (yes, he's married--he'd mentioned that to her when they were originally travelling together). It turns out he's told his family all about her--well, not quite all, since according to the sanitized version one of the kids repeats, the apparently bisexual (at least) medicine-peddler discovered that his "boy assistant" was actually a girl when he went to ask if he could borrow the "boy's" razor and caught "him" not quite dressed enough that it was apparent that the "boy" had breasts, or something to that effect. The cross-dressing girl is a bit disconcerted that he told them anything at all, but plays along with his version of the story.
The guy does seem to love his wife and children, so it's not clear whether he's basically gay but managing to get some kind of emotional fulfillment out of the heterosexual relationship despite its not suiting his sexual tastes (and therefore making passes at attractive young men when he's a safe distance from home), or just likes both genders, but only wants to play around with the one he isn't already married to (or something along those lines).
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cross-dressing in fiction
(Anonymous) 2007-09-20 04:29 pm (UTC)(link)You might find the novel Through A Brazen Mirror by Delia Sherman interesting. One of the things it does is turn that convention on its head.
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